After you spend a few years in a relationship/marriage with someone you begin to lose some of the flame and excitement. You know what I am talking about. I (Scott) remember when Jeanny and I first started dating and even our first few years of marriage, the excitement was there, we enjoyed spending time together. If you know me, you know I am not a fan of shopping and lines. But there were many times that I went with Jeanny to the mall and spent countless hours standing and waiting. Why? Because the flame was there because I enjoyed spending time with her. I recognized what I had.